Monday, November 11, 2013

Caregivers 'SPEAK UP' | Who's going to take care of you when you get old?


Try as we might to turn the hands of time backwards... we're getting old friends... and there's nothing we can do about that. Who's going to look after you when you get older?

This is a quick little note pertaining to CAREGIVING for our adult loved ones. If you know someone who is currently caring for an elderly person, please share the link from Care.com and others, below.
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We get so focused sometimes on the health issues of our loved ones, we tend to forget about the health of the CAREGIVER or that the caregiver has 'rights.  50 million people across the US are caring for a loved one with a chronic illness or disability.

In a brochure called SPEAK UP, the National Family Caregivers Association offers a wealth of information for 'advocating and empowering caregivers and their families.' They offer the following tips and suggestions to help you SPEAK UP for respect, for support, for information, for help, and for the rights of all family caregivers. First of all...

~ BELIEVE IN YOURSELF ~
*Self-identifying as a family caregiver
*Recognizing your strengths and acknowledging your limitations
*Learning to say "no"
*Commanding respect from healthcare providers

~ PROTECT YOUR HEALTH... you have the Right to: ~
*A good night's sleep
*A respite holiday
*Time and energy to exercise
*Regular checkups to ensure that if something is wrong, you catch it early
*A life of your own apart from caregiving

~ ALL ABOUT YOUR RIGHTS ~
Specific to you and only you-- the caregiver, know the following:
*Speak up for financial support to protect you from impoverishment in your later years
*Speak up for annual assessments of your own needs and the means for meeting them
*Speak up for adequate education and training in the skills you will need as a family caregiver
*Speak up for affordable health insurance if you are not getting it through your employer


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Saturday, November 09, 2013

Winning Over Worry

...from... Moments of Peace in the Presence of God


Sunset over the Pacific Ocean

Worry is really fear dressed in sheep's clothing.
Disguised as a friend, it betrays you when you are most vulnerable,
bringing before you images of what has been
and
images of what might be...
in its quest to steal your present and sabotage your future.
Low tide at Sunset over the Pacific Ocean

When you submit your anxious thoughts to God,
He can replace them with pure and praiseworthy thoughts.
Fear, stripped of it flimsy disguise,
is then left to
slink back into the shadows.
 God, thank you for filling my mind
with good thoughts
so that I can win my battle
against worry and fear. ~Amen
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WINING OVER WORRY (...from Moments of Peace in the Presence of God) is a work from Bethany House Publishers,Div. of Baker Publishing Group, Grand Rapids, Michigan. ISBN: 9978-0-7642-2922-0 and may be purchased on Amazon or booksellers nation wide.



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